There are two types of people in this world: Leaders and Followers.
The good news is you can always change your category.
There is nothing extra special about a leader. They simply had the right training and took advantage of the opportunities that were presented to them. Few people are leaders by nature. They had to work at it.
So, if all you need is training and the willingness to seize opportunity, what is stopping you?
Network marketing is all about building leaders. If you have the willingness, you could try starting on the Mentoring Resources page. There are several places listed there to get tons of free training.